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Welcome to the Pass Support Site.

Welcome to the PASS Support Site! You will have to register before you can view posts or post yourself in any board except the Guest Board. You can use the Guest board if you are having trouble with registering or activating your account.

Note: - If you are currently pregnant and considering an abortion, you CANNOT post here. We only allow posts from women who have already had an abortion. Please go to this page to see more details, and a list of places where you CAN talk to other people if you or your friend or relative is pregnant and considering an abortion.


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Site Operations
Guest Area
For prospective new members to ask questions, or for anyone who is having trouble registering their account or accessing the boards. NOTE - This board is moderated to prevent spam and harassment. Your post will not appear until it is approved by a moderator. Every effort is made to assist members as soon as possible.
by jilly
05-17-2012 04:01 PM Go to last post
840 3,201
New Members
For new members to the site to ask questions and say hello.
Sub-Forums:
Welcome New Member! 
Private 33,894 233,192
For Announcements about the site, including updates and new policies.
Sub-Forums:
Announcement Stickies 
Private 1,154 6,736
For people looking to find or be a Pen Pal, Chat Buddy and PASS Buddy
Private 1,519 9,772
Tech Support
for technical support for any issues to do with the boards
Sub-Forums:
Tech Support Stickies 
Private 4,329 23,876
A forum to make and request graphics for signature files
Private 2,748 19,914
Make suggestions or ask questions about anything to do with the site, the members, PASS, or any features of the site. Give us feedback on what helped you, and what you think could improve our help! (note - put any technical questions on the tech support board)
Private 1,127 8,871
This board is for people to ask about volunteering or outreach activities that will promote pass awareness and this website as a resource. Requests can also be posted here for input or stories (re: projects, articles, movies, videos, thesis papers, school projects, etc.).
Private 219 2,184
Main Support
The main message board. if you are not sure what board to post on, start here.
Private 24,213 217,340
A place for women who are seriously grieving their abortion.
Private 6,277 51,353
For women who have had an abortion as teenagers or in their 20's.
Private 3,325 27,746
For women who had an abortion over the age of 30, or who are now 30+ and dealing with PASS issues from a past abortion. This board is for abortion and PASS related issues only. For general or non ab related posts please post on alternative boards.
Private 1,254 11,036
For women who had an abortion over the age of 40, or who are now 40+. This board is for abortion and PASS related issues only. For general or non ab related posts please post on alternative boards.
Private 252 2,924
For women of any age who had an abortion within the last 2 years.
Private 5,730 47,975
For women of any age who had an abortion 2 or more years ago.
Private 2,533 18,244
Ideas, helpful hints and stories about specific things that help in the healing process. From books to music, from lyrics to recovery programmes, a place to share, reflect upon your journey and for your healing journey updates and stories.
Private 1,676 12,095
For partners, relatives or friends of someone who has been through an abortion to seek help and support.
Private 1,081 9,592
Members can request and give hug trains and request extra support here
Private 4,731 90,952
A support board for 'everything else' going on in your life.
Private 547 4,378
Special Situations
For women who had an abortion because of a current or prior domestic abuse/violence situation
Private 827 6,301
For women who were coerced into having an abortion - due to subject matter board is women only
Private 1,079 8,906
For women who had an abortion because of maternal health problems.
Private 378 3,175
for women who had a poor prenatal diagnosis
Private 378 3,381
For women who have had two or more abortions.
Private 881 8,360
for women who aborted a pregnancy of twins, triplets or more.
Sub-Forums:
Selective Reduction 
Private 127 1,110
For women who were raped, and then had an abortion. - due to subject matter board is women only
Private 1,037 8,176
For women who had an abortion through a medical (non-surgical) procedure.
Private 889 7,491
For women who had multiple partners at the time of pregnancy. NOTE: Due to the subject matter of this board, it is a 'woman only' board - men are not allowed to post here
Private 196 1,336
For women who had an abortion any time after the first trimester.
Private 1,443 13,962
Off Topic
For any off-topic questions or discussions.
Private 39,314 495,957
to discuss school, school issues, and PASS as related to school
Private 2,720 18,201
To discuss work, workplace issues, and PASS as related to work
Private 2,961 19,321
The board to discuss TV, movies, books, music, the arcade etc with prefixes to highlight the subject of your post
Private 3,931 29,735
a place to post polls on any topic, PASS-related or otherwise
Sub-Forums:
PASS Topic Polls 
Private 1,297 35,575
To discuss anything related to pets.
Sub-Forums:
Virtual 'Petz' 
Private 4,640 40,247
For any sports discussions
Private 455 3,819
to talk about any and all holidays, and anything to do with the holidays in general
Private 929 8,368
Forum to discuss recipes, favorite foods and drinks, and the Pass The Recipes Cookbook.
Private 970 7,240
Forum for members to discuss aspects of traveling, planning, etc.
Private 525 4,136
a place for planning details on RL get togethers, picnics, hookup nights, ect.
Private 482 5,026
Forum to discussanything to do with finances, frugality, cost cutting, savings tips and techniques.
Private 705 5,532
For boards associated with the Social Groups
Private 401 3,237
Localities
For the UK chics to talk about the weather, biscuits, UK TV etc
Private 1,823 18,701
Forum for our members living "down under" to discuss cultural specific topics
Private 690 4,860
for members from Canada to discuss all things Canadian
Private 289 2,777
Medical and Mental Health Issues
A place to ask questions about medical problems after an abortion, and also any general health questions. This is also a place to discuss any method of birth control, and issues regarding birth control. ANY "SICK" HEALTH ISSUES SHOULD BE POSTED HERE!
Private 7,222 46,188
Requirements - you must be a member for at least 30 days and have at least 30 posts before you can request access to this board - this is a private forum to discuss all aspects of STD's - Women Only
Never 0 0
to discuss nutrition, diets, health, all types of exercise and fitness.
Private 3,093 17,875
A place for support and sharing about any serious or terminal health issue you are facing with any of your Family or Friends
Private 148 1,203
This board is for the SUPPORT and discussion of any SERIOUS, CHRONIC or RECURRING/ONGOING ILLNESS that a member may be dealing with themselves or in their family. It may include some discussion of fertility/chilbirth problems or child discussion as related to the illness, but will have to use trigger covers and warnings. For terminal illnesses please post on the terminal illness of self board
Private 277 1,735
A place for support and sharing about any terminal health issue you are personally facing.
Private 5 35
A place to discuss all mental health issues.
Private 4,046 30,063
To discuss any type of addiction issue after an abortion.
Sub-Forums:
Self - Injury 
Private 2,470 15,914
To discuss and to seek support for eating disorders. Please note, please do NOT including weights, calorie amounts, and numbers in any post on the ED board.
Private 2,125 13,190
Spiritual Healing
For healing and PASS issues discussion from a christian point of view.
Private 3,867 23,649
For discussing PASS healing from the point of view of any general religion or type of spirituality.
Private 807 5,443
for post abortion healing discussions from people with a view of no higher power of any sort in the universe
Private 134 1,524
Relationships
The board is for all single women who are working through their PASS as a single woman as well as being a place to share thoughts and feelings on moving forward into new relationships.
Private 3,513 26,205
For discussing how your relationships with your friends has changed since your abortion.
Private 1,265 8,691
To discuss any relationship issues in regards to your abortion or in general
Private 6,867 50,559
Forum for members to discuss engagements and wedding preparations
Private 1,343 13,207
Forum for married women to discuss pass issues within marriage
Private 893 7,968
Requirements - you must be a member for at least 30 days and have at least 30 posts before you can request access to this board - this is a private board for discussing issues with sex and intimacy after an abortion. Women Only. Please PM ~Karen~ for the password to the board
Never 0 0
For discussing feelings or issues relating to the partner who was the biological father of the ab pregnancy. *For women only
Private 3,900 26,931
Requirements - you must be a member for at least 30 days and have at least 30 posts before you can request access to this board - this is a private board to discuss sexual abuse prior or after abortion. Women Only. Please PM ~Karen~ for the password to this board
Never 0 0
Requirements - you must be a member for at least 30 days and have at least 30 posts before you can request access to this board - this is a private board for lesbian or bisexual women to discuss the effects of PASS on their relationships - Women Only. To gain access to the board,please let us know your need for the board and PM ~Karen~ for the password
Never 0 0
for women dealing with past or present emotional abuse.
Private 480 3,015
Family Planning
This board is for all women who are thinking about future family planning, but who are not ready to, or are not actively TTC.
Private 903 5,911
For women who are actively trying to conceive. Please note posters must meet the board requirements to post here, be at least 18 years old, and at least 3 months post abortion. Only those actively posting here are able to post about any possible pg.
Sub-Forums:
TTC 6+ months 
Private 4,334 36,554
For women who are pregnant after an abortion and are continuing the pregnancy.
Private 13,693 141,461
Forum for mothers to discuss different aspects of PP
Private 592 5,160
a place for women without children to discuss pass issues
Private 537 4,652
Children and Family Issues
For support in dealing with children and parenting issues after an abortion, as well as a place to talk about anything you want to in relation to your children.
Private 6,113 55,932
for any family issues after an abortion, and family issues in general
Private 576 3,590
Forum for members to discuss aspects of single parenting
Private 292 1,989
Loss Issues
For women who had an abortion, at one time in their lives, and also suffered a miscarriage.
Private 980 7,728
To talk about additional losses such as the passing of any age family members or friends, or loss of a stillborn baby.
Private 1,111 8,800
for discussing feelings of loss related to 'yourself', and not the pregnancy
Private 449 2,543
FOR ABORTION LOSSES. The place to post for anything in relation to any of your anniversaries, EDD's, as well as a place to share memorial activities, or post letters or messages to those lost. For abortion losses only.
Private 3,880 23,867
Common PASS Issues
To discuss recognizing and dealing with replacement baby feelings.
Private 2,234 12,966
To discuss and share about dreams and nightmares after an abortion.
Private 1,859 8,016
To discuss triggers, and how to deal with them.
Sub-Forums:
Pregnancies of Others 
Private 3,946 27,317
Creativity and Personal Growth
To share and discuss song lyrics, poetry & creative writing about PASS and any other topic. The poems and writing can be your own, or someone else's (please reference who the poem/lyrics etc belong to)
Private 2,776 12,734
For working on self-image, self-esteem, respect and positive thinking
Private 1,009 6,580
To gripe, complain, and let us know what has you ticked off these days. (with certain limits) No posts about board members or site activity.
Private 5,397 29,346
About Us
Where jilly posts essays and thoughts
Private 419 3,898
A place to post the story of your experience, to share with others, and find inspirational recovery stories.
Private 1,437 10,993
when someone writes a beautiful, moving, heartfelt and tear-brimming post that sums up any portion of the PASS experince, at any time in their healing, before, during and after the deal with PASS, we want to move it here. Come in to the area to read more.
Private 23 530
Structured Recovery Groups
Private forums for the structured recovery program
All information and groups inside.
Never 364 2,316


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